Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Friendship

There's been a wish for Friendship desired on my part and/or that of others through the span of times, though it never materialized. It was all our faults. Either I, or the others, let the bloom of friendship wither. Turn to dust and fade silently away into the depths of time to be trampled upon.
Friendship is more that just a temporary longing to form a close bound with one another. It goes well beyond that. It's a shared commitment. Taking the actions of all concerned individuals to flourish into a monument of Love and Strength.
Often, we have a thin understanding of what 'FRIENDSHIP' really means.
It extends ethnology, demographics, or theologies. In fact, it comes down to Love and Respect. Friendship is a 'social glue' that paves the roads of 'PEACE'.
Friendship is a 'free' gift that God offers to us...For genuine friendship does not dissolve...It's loving each other for what WE are. It provides a mirror of ourselves, even though we are separate and different from each other in life form.
Indeed, we are the gardeners that in tendering the souls of others to bloom, we find ourselves blooming right along with them. A give and take that occurs so naturally.
Spiritual friendship seeks to teach us that we have only a transient connection to the body. Age, gender, hobbies, careers and religious affiliates don't travel with us from here to eternity. There is no 'them' and 'us.'
It's a transcendental truth; we're all connected.
Friendships build bridges between people - much like the bridge between earth and Heaven.
In friendship we possess mutual confidence and trust. It's found on acceptance. Without friends our lives would be very lonely, and loneliness depletes our zest for LIFE.
We need to take care of our friends, who in turn will take care of us.
Friends are easy to find...but also easy to lose.
To keep our friends we must know:
How to comfort,
How to encourage,
How to forgive,
And, how to be generous.
Life becomes richer as love grows. Never forget that whatever conduct displeases you will also displease them.
The colors of Friendship make up the rainbow...a promise of Hope for tomorrow. Carve A Tree
Let's remember to appreciate one another. Let your friends know how much they mean to you.

For in God's delight were we born.


"We are all but a single tree in the forest of life..." htl



2 comments:

Deb said...

"...To keep our friends we must know:
How to comfort,
How to encourage,
How to forgive,
And, how to be generous."


I unfortunately had to let a very close friend go, because she couldn't possess these qualities that I seek so diligently in a friend.

I love the song on your blog, "I Can Only Imagine"...

Great post! Hope you had a magical holiday!

Helen Taylor Little said...

Deb, my friend, I've missed your presence. Your words bring light to my site.
Sorry you lost a close friend, but a garden left unattended will turn to weeds.
I've found some folks just don't know how to be more than fair weather friends. And others, well, they're energy vampires.
I envision you to be a friend of great substance. Your words not only bring light, but ring as well.
May 2008 bring you all the success and happiness yer heart yearns for.
HAPPY NEW YEAR, Deb!
God bless...
Always,
Taylor